[REAL TALK] Are u a stepdad?

[boxingfan91]

If not, would u be a stepdad, why or why not? I know some people are against it

[HewJohnson]

If not, would u be a stepdad, why or why not? I know some people are against it

Nope and nope.

Not good with kids and wouldn�t be willing to commit to permanently acting like I care for her child if I truly weren�t too fond of them.

[racer59]

If not, would u be a stepdad, why or why not? I know some people are against it

FOCNO!!!!

Mudabish.

[Fists_of_Fury]

No I'm not. I won't date women with kids. I'll sleep with them though. I'm not dealing with baby daddy drama. I also don't want to be around kids I can't discipline. I hate annoying and bratty kids. Tons of single moms expect you to take care of them and their kid(s). I prefer women that take care of themselves or split everything down the middle. I'm not taking care of a parasite that only cooks, cleans and offers a piece of ass while I pay for everything.

[EDD1]

If not, would u be a stepdad, why or why not? I know some people are against it

Have been with someone with kids and they say they want you to participate in parenting but it's just not possible, you will never care as much as you would if it was your own, and if you overstep your place it can turn ugly fast, don't do it,,,,, with that being said if the father was an pro ball player and he was 7'2" and you can teach em a jump shot, then the day he enters the hall of fame he will thank you for being there

[DeltaSigChi4]

Yes. Yours.

[boxingfan91]

Yes. Yours.

**** ur mudder, **** ur ansistahs

[DeltaSigChi4]

**** ur mudder, **** ur ansistahs

[_original_]

It’s generally a bad idea unfortunately. I’ve been there.

Women will expect you to father to their kid which includes being financially responsible. However, you will never be allowed to discipline the kid as your own and will be knocked down a notch when you try.

You’ll be putting up with baby daddy drama and could be caught in the middle. Always the chance she runs back to the guy as she has a stronger bond through having his child.

Kid may turn rebellious in their teen and take out their angst on you because you’re not their “damn father.”

If you get attached to the kid and she leaves you, you have no right to the kid ever again. Even if you took care of them for years. Bye bye, you’re gone.

[Marvlus Marv]

It’s generally a bad idea unfortunately. I’ve been there.

Women will expect you to father to their kid which includes being financially responsible. However, you will never be allowed to discipline the kid as your own and will be knocked down a notch when you try.

You’ll be putting up with baby daddy drama and could be caught in the middle. Always the chance she runs back to the guy as she has a stronger bond through having his child.

Kid may turn rebellious in their teen and take out their angst on you because you’re not their “damn father.”

If you get attached to the kid and she leaves you, you have no right to the kid ever again. Even if you took care of them for years. Bye bye, you’re gone.

I'd like to second this^^. Good times are great, in difficult times you see how little authority you have. My own daughter died young and despite the best efforts of my monster of a partner to fawk her own kids up, I managed to get the job done - one (17) off to Uni this September and another (19) working in roofing. If it was down to her alone, they'd be fkn struggling. What some mothers/parents get away with is truly criminal.
Knowing the dangers or disadvantages of stepdadding is the best advice outside of saying "don't do it!" Blokes get no support at all from 'the world', except from your own family - if you're lucky enough.